Someone made a comment when I posted at 5w5d and said the hard part is over. It def is not just because you have a couple of positive beta’s, they confirm that the pregnancy is progressing means I am out of the woods in anyway. I know a lot of women think that if you get a positive pregnancy test that you will have a baby but thats not always the case. I take it week by week and milestone by milestone. We need to hear the heartbeat next week and it needs to be over 100bpm next is it to hear it again the following week and it should be stronger around 130-150bpm. Once you hear the heartbeat the chances of miscarriage drop but they dont go away.
I will be super nervous this whole pregnancy because we lost our daughter and the whole you passed the 1st trimester means your having a healthy baby is gone!!! That naive innocence is long gone. To be honest I dont think I was ever naive about it. My good friend lost her daughter at 40 weeks so I know that until you are holding your baby anything can go wrong. Going thru IF really changes your perspective on pregnancy. I am happy but cautious and that is how I will probably stay this whole pregnancy.
The hard part is def not over. I have just started the hard journey!!!