I did not like my MFM Appt!!!

First I had to wait over 2 hrs to be seen which is beyond ridiculous and then where the u/s is done was like a triage unit.  There were curtains and not a private room so I was having my u/s while a woman was having either her blood pressure or blood taken.  Then the tech starts the u/s and the dr. pops in to see what the measurement was he proceeds to ask why I got the TAC and my response was to give my baby the best chance at being born full term!!!  I was so annoyed by that question he then asks where I got, what hospital and why I went traditional.  I hate being questioned like that!!!  He then says that its not full proof and my cervix can still dilate and shorten which doesnt matter since I have the band oh and it can still fail.  I said that I had it done by one of the best TAC dr’s in the country if not the world and his track record with pre-pregnancy TAC’s is 100%.  I just dont think he is that familiar with TAC’s.  Then I ask about the p17 shots since at my MFM consult my MFM recommended it so I ask would I see her and he says if I have an appt. with her. Well they have to call and see if its covered. I didnt know I had to make an appt. to see her since I thought I was coming in for an u/s with her.  So they get her and she then tells me that my cervix is not too long but workable!!!  WTF does that mean!!!  I had to look back and see what my pre-pregnancy cervix measurement is since Dr. Davis took the measurement after my TAC and it was 3.0cm.  I just cant believe how bad this appt. was.  I started making calls to see if I can get a consult with a new MFM since I really do not want to go thru that ordeal ever again.


My name is Cindy

Posted in Pregnancy
2 comments on “I did not like my MFM Appt!!!
  1. I’m sorry your appt went badly. I’d find a new Dr. stat. Good luck finding a better more supportive MFM.

  2. Lauren says:

    Oh, I’m so sorry! Yuck. For one reason or another, I feel like I have had too many of these bad appointments myself.

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